I was quiet for so long, but that wasn’t helping anyone, especially me. I think it is very important for people to talk more openly about their mental health issues. Because the more we normalize it the more we reduce the stigma that unfortunately still surrounds it. Continuing to keep it a secret and feeling…
Category: Depression
How To Prepare for Fall/Winter With Depression
This is a subject I blogged about just over 2 years ago. You can find that post here. I decided to create a video covering this topic for my YouTube channel with a little extra commentary. This is going to be an extra difficult winter season because of the current state of the world, and…
We Need To Have A Real Talk About Depression
Depression is an illness, just like diabetes, cancer, or heart disease. It is a brain disorder that can affect both the mind and the body. But for some reason, people who suffer from it are afraid to tell anyone about it. We are afraid of being shamed, misunderstood, and generally stigmatized. There is so much…
6 Bad Habits That People With Depression Have
Everyone has bad habits. Biting our nails, leaving the lid off the toothpaste, cracking our knuckles, to name a few. However, there are some bad habits that tend to be consistent among those with depression. A lot of these bad habits are actually a symptom of the illness, so it’s not surprising that someone with…
How My Mental Health Has Changed Since Becoming A Mom
My mental health has changed since having my daughter. I wouldn’t say it’s gotten any worse, but it also hasn’t gotten any better. It’s just, different. I still suffer from anxiety and depression, as I did before, but they manifest in different ways now. My negative/anxious thoughts are about different things. It’s as if my…
5 Ways to Support Someone During a Depressive Crisis
If you need support right now, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 or text “START” to 741-741. Or, Crisis Services Canada at 1-833-456-4566 Watching a loved one go through a depressive episode is so scary. Not knowing what to do or how to help can make you feel helpless and guilty. It can be really difficult to…
What’s In My Mental Health Crisis Kit
What is a mental health crisis kit? It’s a collection of items packed together that can help you through a personal crisis. They can be as simple, small, extravagant, or as big as you like. Every person struggles with their mental illness in a different way, so everyone will have a different kit that is…
Why is it so Hard to Ask For Help When You Have Depression?
One of the hardest things for me to do is ask for help. I even have a hard time accepting it when it’s offered. This is especially true when it’s related to my mental health. It’s really silly when you think about it. If I sprained a wrist or became very ill, I wouldn’t have…
How I Feel About My Postpartum Body
I’ve always been ok with my body. Growing up, through teenhood, I had low self-esteem about many things but my body was not one of them. Sure, there were little things that I would change and I would compare myself with other girls I knew, and celebrities on magazine covers. But in general, I was…
8 Ways People Keep Their Depression A Secret
There are many reasons why someone may want to keep their depression a secret. Fear of judgment, not wanting to make others uncomfortable, or they want to ignore it and hope it goes away. Of course, that rarely works out for anyone. Here are some ways that people keep the rest of us oblivious to…